If you are simply looking for someone to spank, or be spanked yourself for that matter, there are personal sites that do exist, but if you are actually trying to find a woman for a long term relationship on one of these sites, you really need a lot of luck and patience.
The problem is most women don’t place personal ads looking for a spanking partner, and if you do happen to find one that does, you will be in competition with at least 50 other men for that same woman. Shadowlane has one every year in Vegas, and there are smaller parties and get-togethers in many other major cities throughout the world. The fact is they are all around you and have always been!
It wasn’t until I was in my early teens when I came across an adult book called, Forum published by the world famous Penthouse magazine, that I began to realized there were others out there like me.
Although it was a little comforting to know I was not the only one with these desires, I still felt just as alone knowing there was no one I could talk to regarding this subject without the risk of mockery or someone thinking I was bat-shit crazy.
Do you sit and wait for the next party the following year? So how does a single guy (or girl) find a partner for a long term relationship that includes spanking? Long before puberty and long before I would have ever considered it something even remotely sexual.As I started to become attracted to the opposite sex, my eyes would always focus on her derriere.I considered it then as I do now, the most beautiful site to behold in the world.Not just the most beautiful body part, the most beautiful, period. This is not to say I don’t appreciate a woman’s personality.In fact, personality is the most important thing to me when looking for a partner.